Looking after your parents who were emotionally unavailable or were abusive towards you as a child makes you a child pleasing kid always giving giving giving over extending yourself to make your parent love you or happy. Watch this pattern as you choose lovers in adult hood. You may still be that Sad inner child trying to give give give force your lover to love you by over extending yourself.
Not realizing you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are and you are WORTHY OF love. Your SELF WORTH IS determined by you and YOu chooosing to be LOVED right. You deserve a healthy beautiful love. Don't trauma bond. You are worthy of Healthy Calm Happy Love.
I love You. You are worthy of a beautiful kind happy Magical Love you Beautiful Beast you.